Fear Is Not Comfort

Posted by JumpyPants

My cousin just got back from a visit with our extended family in the Ohio River Valley. That’s the northern part of Appalachia, where Obama could barely muster a vote. My family there are now clinging to every fantasy they can about not only the last 8 years (“the recession is Clinton’s fault!” “Iraq is going great!” “9/11 is Clinton’s fault!” “Al Gore is a liar!” “There is no such thing as global warming — look at the snow in Vegas!”), but about the incoming president (“He’s not an American, he’s a Muslim, he will take jobs away from white people!”).

This is my family, so I feel it’s extra-incumbent upon me to understand them, which means understanding where they are coming from. Sadly, it’s not hard to figure out. They are willfully provincial, for the most part eschewing travel outside their geographic and cultural comfort zones. Some of them home school so that their kids aren’t exposed to facts like “evolutionary processes” or the history of slavery in America. They are victims of their own fear, which is further fed by the vomit-stream of lies fed to them by Rush Limbaugh, Fox News and their friends who send around chain emails. They have embraced fear as comfort, which sounds about as strange as it is, but this is who they are. Fear of the other, and what is the president-elect if not the biggest “other” they can imagine, makes them feel safe in themselves.

But I have hope. I believe that if they can live through the next four years, there is a chance that they will see that there are no others among us. I believe they have the potential to understand in their hearts the words of Dutch humanist Erasmus when he said:

One would imagine that the common name of man might be sufficient to secure concord between all who claim it.

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  • Alan4s

    >>…Dutch humanist Erasmus …I don’t know – they wear wooden shoes over there in dutchland, don’t they? I can’t understand anything about someone with oak loafers.

  • trustno1

    Well said, JP. Have pity on us who live here, please.In all seriousness, on November 6th, I got an e-mail from a guy I didn’t know (he must have gotten my addy from one of the countless forwards that my brother in law crams into my inbox.) Its essential message was that the “kids” and the “brown people” had “rah-rahed” Obama into office, and boy were we going to be sorry, and it’s too bad those people were so ignorant as to know what was going to befall us blah blah.I thought, “Okay, I’ll bite.” I sent him the statistical breakdown of how Obama had gotten more of the white vote than Gore and had won every age bracket except seniors. The response was an essay on how Obama was a narcissistic psychopath cult leader, with (of course) no mention of the facts I presented to them.You are exactly right: the Republicans that have been living in a bubble for the past 8 years are “clinging” to fear and hysteria (as well as continued elitist/common man arguments because they lack any real leadership.) (See: JTP as everyman reporter, continued Palin worship.)

  • http://willpen.wordpress.com willpen

    Fear is always going to be what drives people who fail to enlighten themselves to what the big world out there has to offer.I blame this entirely on our education system. First the fact that parents should not be allowed to home school their children and secondly the fact that most of the local school systems in these areas have teachers that are just perpetuating the fears. Maybe it is time for the Federal Government to get a bit more involved in what children are taught in this country.This is not rant for socialism or communism. It is rant for raising the bar so that our children come away smarter for having gone to school.Great post.

  • camel54

    With respect, willpen, the teachers more often than not are forced by parents and by local schoolboards to teach things they don’t agree with or more often to NOT teach things they know to be true. Teachers are constantly threatened by parents with things like, “I’ll take this to the board!” or “I pay your salary so I’m your boss,” or “I’ll sue you so fast your head will spin.” All very original threats and sadly, school administrators, out of their own sense of fear, cave to these types of parents. Never mind that school boards are typically not educators. Teachers, as tax paying citizens pay their own salaries as well.Beyond that, JumpyPants, I live in Tennessee so I know what you’re saying and sadly I believe one in a thousand minds my change or be open to other points of view. My own family will argue with me that the 90s were terrible in their perspective. This baffles me. How is their life experience different from the rest of America’s. I know for a fact things were better for them in the 90s because I was there, and I saw them gainfully employed and making money off of Internet schemes. How people can choose to say reality is different for them because they are in a different political party goes so far outside of reason it leaves me twitching and babbling to myself.

  • http://www.broadwaycarl.blogspot.com Broadway Carl

    With all due respect, JP, sometimes there’s no arguing with a 30 percenter. You’ll end up smashing your head against a brick wall. They’re going to believe what they want to believe and nothing you can say will make a difference. Sounds to me like these are the type who still give Dick Cheney a favorable rating.

  • http://willpen.wordpress.com willpen

    Camel,I agree with you 100%. Maybe I should have made it clearer that I do not blame the teachers, but I do blame the administrators on both the local and state levels. Does the buck stop on a state level? Maybe that is where the state should have to answer to the federal government if they want to continue getting their federal funding.

  • LameDuckHunting

    lib, I had a few laughs Monday night when caught a bit of Hanitty’s show……I thought his head was going to explode…..it’s going to be a tough couple of years for you guys…..

  • cminri

    I always wonder how the Repubs continue to be so arrogant and condescending when it is their party who is mostly responsible for the problems we face today.

  • LameDuckHunting

    cminri, if they didn’t keep on the game face, they’d have to own their responsibility…….

  • http://www.broadwaycarl.blogspot.com Broadway Carl

    Perhaps you’d like to provide us with some examples, Mr. Independent The Lib4Ever.

  • gypsysoul

    lib4ever >> amplify those problems to hysterical levelsyes, we are crazy for calling out republicans on factual data like torture, hidden agenda wars, race baiting, etc. we’re sooo crazy like that!

  • GItheScholar

    Getting hillbillies to believe in Obama would be just as difficult as getting them to believe in evolution. You could show them all the charts and graphs but it won’t work.I don’t think it was your intent JP, but you successfully married the Jesus people with the Magic Negro people. For this I thank you.

  • ceu

    right

  • SillyGit

    OMG. An evolution denier. How quaint.Not much can happen in 5 billion years, can it?Perhaps you think the Earth is on 6 thousand years old.

  • GItheScholar

    Lib,They have this new thing that wasn’t mentioned in Leviticus called SCIENCE. Yes, the Bible(Primitive man) forgot to mention science. But I will play your game.I don’t have an appendix. Therefore I should be dead right?I also don’t have tonsils therefore I shouldn’t be able to breath in cold climates right?Why is it every time I go to the dentist and get ex-rays of my teeth my dentist(8 years of education) tells me that I have a baby tooth for a molar and it is a normal part of EVOLUTION? No I don’t have bad teeth.Ball is in your court.

  • frictionsoul

    Lib, et all,If you’re so enlightened, how come you bother with word fear to begin it?Isn’t it all about belief systems in the first place? Belief that fear exists, belief in this, belief in that.Hasn’t anyone ever read Genesis without checking their belief system at the first word?People believe whatever they want to believe. Dems use fear, Repubs use fear. Everyone use, abuses and never owns up the underlying issue: belief systems and how they acquired it.4 freaking years jumpypants? Ha. You’ll wait forever. CS Lewis had it right: the elves are for themselves. The nicest pie in the world is always going to taste like rotted cabbage to them. Obama could walk on water, heal millions so they never needed health care, and bring sight to the blind and there will ALWAYS be people who will quibble with the facts because it doesn’t fit their belief system.As for the same old same old 6,000 year old earth, that’s easy as cake: about theat time the Earth got sucked into a wormhole. The only debate for me is whether we’re in it, or we’re out of it.I say we’re still in it. How else to explain that everybody time travels? If you don’t believe me, how come you let the past dictate the right here and now?And that also goes straight to the heart of judgmental types: those who judge are making a negative prediction of the future, based on yesterday and neither have anything to do with here and now.

  • GItheScholar

    Scientology doesn’t make you a scientist.

  • GItheScholar

    Lib,We had an “Employee of the higher education system” on here before that turned out to be a janitor at a CA community college. So if you are a scientist I am afraid your word isn’t good enough. Some credentials are necessary. If you got your degrees from a Christian College you are automatically disqualified.

  • Alan4s

    Lib is a scientist? I call bullshit. The “evolution is just a theory” line proves it.

  • LameDuckHunting

    >>BTW I am a scientistAnd the Dot.Com bust did you in? Hmmmmmm, too bad you’re not an engineer…….the we could all get a ride on your train……..

  • Redmond

    Lib is a troll, folks. Ignore him and he’ll go away.

  • EL Mystico

    >>BTW I am a scientist, have I mentioned the Bible at all? Nope. Just using rational thought.Evolution can’t be real because -insert chicken & egg scenario- is rational? Asking how it works maybe but saying it can’t because it’s too complicated? You want an explanation, sit down with evolutionary biologist, they could probably answer all your questions

  • Redmond

    Lib4ever, here’s how you evolved.I put my man stuff into your mother. Nine months later you arrived. Afterward, we tossed you in a dumpster where you adapted to your surroundings and somehow survived to comment here today. I don’t want to say that proves evolution, but long story short, I’m still your father. Now shut up and get back in the basement.End troll-feeding.

  • Monkey

    Nice to see all the enlightened libs here actually putting together a cogent argument to to shoot down lib4ever’s comments. “How quaint.” As for the Repubs being condescending, seems a good example of condescension are the comments here about hillbillies. Repubs living in a bubble, 30 percenters, etc.

  • http://www.osborneink.com Matt Osborne

    Trollin’, Trollin’, Trollin’Trollin’, Trollin’, Trollin’Trollin’, Trollin’, Trollin’Trollin’, Trollin’, Trollin’Outside!They’re trollin’, Trollin’, Trollin’Their comments are so swollenKeep them dogies Trollin’ Outside!No matter what the weatherOr how the ice gets thinner,In their postings global warming is denied.They write extended missives,Of evidence dismissive,Their links are all to pages that have died.Move ‘em on, head ‘em off,Head ‘em off, block ‘em out,Take ‘em on, block ‘em out Outside!Put ‘em out, ride ‘em offRide ‘em off, knock ‘em out,Cut ‘em out, move ‘em on Outside!They’re postin’, postin’, postin’Though monitors removin’,Take their comments postin’ Outside!Don’t try to understand ‘em,Just mark, delete and ban ‘em,Their paranoia’s poison to your mind.By my quick calculatin’Nine tenths of it is spammin’,just pimpin’ out a blog that we’ll deride.Move ‘em on, head ‘em off,Head ‘em off, block ‘em out,Take ‘em on, block ‘em out Outside!Put ‘em out, ride ‘em offRide ‘em off, knock ‘em out,Cut ‘em out, move ‘em on Outside!Outside!Outside!

  • Bob Cesca

    >>>Lib is a troll, folks. Ignore him and he’ll go away.YES. That is exactly right. From what I’ve been able to determine, this troll is a registered independent scientist and, somehow, former dot-com employee who denies evolution and paid a 40% tax rate during a time when he was unemployed.Soon we’ll learn that he’s a bionic astronaut porn star.IGNORE!

  • prcleburne

    My 88 year old mother-in-law, from Harlan Co., Kentucky, was the daughter of a coal miner, who became a union organizer. She has never voted for a Republican. She couldn’t vote for Obama : ” Who’d vote for a ni***r , anyway ? ” On November 4th, on her way to the polls, she turned around , and didn’t vote. She couldn’t vote for the ni***r, but , by God, she wasn’t going to vote for the Republican either. Since the election, she has been impressed so far by what she has seen of tne President- elect ( particularly by his appointment of Hillary Clinton as S of S ).I think she will come around, and will be pleasantly surprised. I offer this because it suggests that , given the chance, residents of Appalachia, who hold no love for Republicans, will accept Obama. It will be interesting to see what 2012 will hold in store.

  • emsique

    just walk away, kids. Don’t make eye contact. He’s just off his meds.

  • emsique

    I don’t think my dear 80 year old George Wallace voting dad will ever reconcile himself to the new president. We have been having the same argument for 40 years. I love him dearly, but there are some things that are just immovable.

  • nverlib

    It is alway interesting to read how liberals proclaim themselves as intellectually and culturally superior to conservatives. Any conservative that challenges that proclamation is promptly attacked and gang beaten by these great intellectuals. I can see why one would have fear when, according to liberals, you are allowed only one point of view. Talk about arrogance…