Race & America: May We Continue To Care

by Lee Stranahan

After Attorney General Eric Holder’s ‘nation of cowards’ speech a few weeks ago, President Obama has some disagreements about tone but not really with the overall point Holder was making.

“We’ve made enormous progress and we shouldn’t lose sight of that,” Obama told The New York Times in an interview posted on the newspaper’s Web site Saturday.

The president said he understood Holder to be saying the country often is uncomfortable talking about race until there’s a racial flare-up or conflict and that the nation probably could be more constructive in facing up to slavery and discrimination.

I’d already been thinking specifically about some of these issues while working on a documentary about race after the election of President Obama and after reading about Rev. David Eaton, the first black minister of a major Unitarian-Universalist congregation in 1970s. So here’s some words for a Sunday about Eaton’s experience;

Although black and white members worked well together in carrying out the business of the church, in less formal activities the two races tended to stay apart. The congregation struggled to move “beyond race,” trying to develop a church community in which interpersonal relationships were based on individual qualities rather than on differences of race. This proved an extremely difficult goal, and was only partially achieved. Eaton worked hard to promote understanding of those of differing races and culture, but he recognized early that he and the congregation must inevitably fall short. “We know what life is and what life ought to be,” he said. “Many of us are dislocated between the Is and the Ought because we are products of a dislocated period in history. . . . The spiritual challenge is no longer mute, it speaks: ‘locate yourself or learn to thrive in dislocation.’ I think we need to learn both. . . . May we continue to care.”

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  • AdyLeigh

    President Obama remains consistent on issues regarding race and race realations.“While my own upbringing hardly typifies the African American experience-and although, largely through luck and circumstances, I now occupy a position that insulates me from most of the bumps and bruises that the average black man must endure-I can still tell you of some slights that during my forty-five years have been directed my way: security guards trailing me as I shop in department stores, people who have actually given me their keys as we all stood outside a restaurant waiting for the valet, police officers pulling me over many times for no reason. I know what it’s like to be told that I can not do something because of the color of my skin, and I know the bitter swill of swallowed-back anger.”…“To think clearly about race, then, requires us to see the world in a split-screen—to maintain in our sights the kind of America that we want while looking squarely at America as it is, to acknowledge the sins of the past of people of all races and the challenges of the present without becoming trapped in cynicism or despair. I have witnessed a profound and wonderful shift in race relations in my lifetime. I have felt it as surely as one feels a change in temperature. When I hear some in the black or any other minority community deny those changes, I think it not only dishonors those who struggled on our behalf but also robs us of our opportunities to complete the work they began.”…“What I’ve come to know from a lifetime of experience is that whatever preconceived notions Americans of all races may continue to hold, the overwhelming majority of us are able-when given the opportunity-more than willing to look beyond race in making judgments about others.”…–Barack Obama, “The Audacity of Hope”

  • AdyLeigh

    Ooops. I meant, “race relations” up there. Sorry.

  • http://obamaproject.windonwater.net QueenTiye

    From the Baha’i writings:Know ye not why We created you all from the same dust? That no one should exalt himself over the other. …And, we have as a fundamental creed, “The earth is but one country, and mankind its citizens.Getting to that place will take time, courage, and attention. Most of all, it takes willingness.QT

  • 24hourjack

    eric holder was spot on.as soon as i heard what he said,i knew that everyone would lose their shit and completely distort what he was saying,only playing that one sentence over and over.predictably,we ended up having a sort of fox news type conversation about why black people arent grateful enough for the way white people have stopped being AS racist as we used to be.its truly pathetic.the thing that everyone seems to gloss over is the fact that holder didnt say “white people are essentially cowards”.he said that “WE” essentially are still cowards.it was an indictment of black people just as much as white people.and the absurd conversation that followed,just proved his point perfectly.

  • http://petertupitza@comcast.net smackdab

    Lee- I just wanted to back up and add another factor to Barrack’s seemingly miraculous win that is often reported a little too B&W. My (same-sex) partner and I adopted transracially twelve years ago. Our caucasian hearts are completely invested in our African American children. During the primaries (living in Del.) we were solidly behind the ‘white guy who could win’. I wouldn’t have voted for Barrack out of liberal guilt. But the momentum and his family’s story story made the difference. Never in an American election did I ever feel like I was [almost] entirely represented by a candidate. My mind was made up by the time of the Phila. speech, but I knew when he delivered it that he was pulling the lynch-pin out of what had always been the dialog; ‘can’t we all just get along’. I knew he was reaching everyone I knew; AA lesbians w/ a white sperm donor, parents and grand parents of non-traditional families [not just B&W], friends [and Friends] who actively seek to bridge cultural divides… My one-line blog post after the primary was; “I pin my every last hope for this nation on Senator Obama”. I mean that now more than ever. What D., R., and I. may not reveal is that most of us are emotionally invested in diversity. Most of the families I know include some otherkindedness- it’s the kind of understanding I’m sure my immigrant relatives had. What I dared to learn with the rest of the country is; There are many more of ‘us’ , people who ‘s life experience places then a bit aside from voting blocs, than there is ‘them’, people who consider nothing else. My point; B&W dialog is gone. Catch up with what won N. Car., IN., & VA. It’s no kind of cultual transendence that we haven’t already personally made.